Saturday, February 27, 2010

A Day In The Life Of A Missionary Wife

While on furlough I was asked multiple times, “So, what do you do?” Bill’s job description is very clear cut but there seems to be some curiosity about what a missionary wife does with herself all day long. After giving it some consideration, I have come up with a list of job descriptions that I carry here in PNG.

1) Housewife – My job of primary importance is keeping up my home so that after a hard day of flying Bill has a place to come home to that is clean and restful, with a good meal waiting to fill the hole in his stomach. Cooking generally takes longer then in the States as most everything must be cooked from scratch. Here I am getting ready to make guacamole from the abundance of avocados off our tree.

2) Baker – Bread is a food staple for us. I bake a loaf of bread at least every other day. Bill’s favorite Friday night supper is Banana bread topped with Papaya and soaked in milk. Really!

3) Laundress – Laundry is always waiting for a day of sunshine so that it can dry. After years of having to wash clothes by hand in Africa, I am most grateful for a washing machine here in PNG. However, dryers are still a novelty. There is nothing wrong with using good old sunshine except when it wants to rain buckets every day.

4) Shopper - Shopping is probably my least favorite activity. Battling the masses of people that hang out in the very hot, muddy, filthy market is just not my idea of fun.

The produce, spread out on the ground in the mud, is lugged around in bags that quickly become VERY heavy to carry.

After arriving home, all that produce must be carefully cleaned in order to avoid such nasties as hepatitis, dysentery, and cholera. Not only do I shop for myself, but for others as well. For example, while Carol Millist has been on medical leave to Australia, I have done all the shopping for her family. I also shop for missionaries that live in remote areas if our pilots are making a flight out their way. Just this past week I shopped for some AFM missionaries as well as some SIL missionaries.

5) Farmer - Well, farmer is a pretty grandiose title, but I like the way it sounds. (grin) I bravely try to fight a winning war against the weeds, bugs, and disease so that I can produce a little of my own produce and maybe not have to visit the market as often. (So far I cannot claim any great success!)


6) Grounds Keeper – With the amount of rain we get it takes constant work to keep the yard from turning into wild bush. One of my weekly duties is mowing the lawn and weeding the flower beds.

7) Animal Keeper – As you can see here, I have this big, fiercesome, guard dog that takes her job very seriously. Not only must I cook for Bill, but I must cook for her as well. She gets a big bowl full of brown rice, sweet potatoes, and tuna fish every day. Some how she seems to thinks she earns her keep!

The sweet potatoes come freshly dug up from the gardens. They are covered in dirt so must first be scrubbed clean.

8) Inventory Controller – It is my job to receive in and log out the aircraft parts inventory. This includes counting and batch filing the parts when they arrive, entering them in to the accounting system, converting their prices from foreign currency into local currency, etc.

9) Accounts Clerk – I share this title with Carol Millist, coming in several times a week to help with the accounts receivable and payable.

10) Banker – I do the weekly banking for AAS. I count up all the money that has come in through our commercial aviation business, match it with the receipts, enter it into the accounts system, and deliver it safely to the bank. (At least that is my goal. This past week a woman was robbed as she attempted to enter the bank. She was attacked by a gang of men who cut her bag right off her arm with a machete and took off in a get-a-way car. Such is life here in PNG)

11) Hostess – There are always an assortment of visitors coming to PNG that have to be provided for by the missionary wives. “Fly and Build” teams, Division personnel, Union personnel, friends and relatives coming for a visit, etc. For example, just this past week, I had Terry McHugh, our Union Accountant, in my home for the week, when he came up to review our accounts. This afternoon I have a film crew arriving from Australia that I will be putting up for several days.

12) Airplane Mechanic Assistant – Any time the airplane goes down for routine inspections, Bill has several little non-skilled jobs for me to do to help with the maintenance. One of my favorite jobs is doing paint touch-up on all the hundreds of little spots where the paint has worn off. Maybe it somehow appeals to the artistic side of me.

Someone recently made the comment that the work I do does not impact any lives. This is true. I am not a frontline missionary. However, what he failed to realize is that for every frontline missionary there has to be the support people that enable the frontline missionary to be able to do what they do. Every day our pilots impact not just one person’s life, but entire village’s lives. They are often the lifeline to these remote villages - flying in store goods, building supplies, medicines, and medical teams. They fly out their sick, bring home their deceased, fly out their produce to sell so they can have money to pay school fees...etc. I cannot fly an airplane into some of the most challenging airstrips in the world, but I CAN do all the little mundane “behind the scenes” jobs that are just part of daily living, and in the process I free up my husband to do what he does best. Impact lives!

Sunday, January 31, 2010

Changes

We had an uneventful trip back to PNG. The highlight of the trip was having a 24 hour layover in Brisbane where we got to spend some time with our niece and her husband of one year whom we hadn't had the privilege of meeting yet. Thank you Katrina and Jerrod for showing us such a lovey time.

The new year has brought many changes to our program. We are delighted that Bennett Spencer, along with his wife Dalena and daughter Annah, has joined AAS as our new pilot. Bennett is a highly experienced and skilled pilot and we just feel so blessed to have him join our team. Dalena already comes with a missionary background as she grew up in Taiwan. We enjoy her fun spirit and she has been quick to adapt to the culture.

As for little Annah... she is doing her part to try to understand the culture as well. (-:

While we were gaining new team members, we were also loosing some. Brooks Payne, our airplane mechanic, and his wife Susan have returned to the States. They will be greatly missed in PNG.
Another sad loss to our team is Willie. Willie was a young national who always had a sparkle in his eyes and a great big smile. I never saw Willie when he didn't look like he was just enjoying life to the fullest. He was a carpenter who for many years (dating back to our first term here) did odd jobs for AAS. While we were home on furlough we received the shocking news that Willie had died from Hepatitis. He left behind a lovey wife and 6 month old baby girl.
This past week Carol, Dalena, and I went to visit Willie's widow, Diane, and baby Carol.

Here is Carol Millist holding her namesake, baby Carol.

Annah brought several of her toys and clothes to share with the baby.

Baby Carol enjoying her new stuffed kitty.

Willie's grandmother, parents, wife and daughter with Carol Millist. Willie will be missed by all.

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Happy New Year

Bill and I have been home on furlough for the holidays and it has been a wonderful time spent with family and friends.

I came home early so I could spend Thanksgiving with my parents and our girls. I met Bri and Betsy at Union College and was delighted to find out that some of the “little girl” still remains in my grown up college daughters.


Right after Thanksgiving my two sisters were able to come and spend a week with my parents and me. We really missed having our brother there to make the reunion complete.  But we truly enjoyed our sister time together.  

Shortly after their departure Bill returned home from PNG and his family all gathered at our home for a family reunion.  It was a special time of laughing and crying as we shared memories of Bob and found our hearts really missing him during this Holiday season. We really look forward to the big family reunion in Heaven where we will ALL be together again forever and ever.  Bob, Neiba, Dad…all of us! 

We enjoyed showing off some of the beauty of New Mexico to Bill’s family.  We took them hiking on top of Sandia Mountain and to the unique formations of Tent Rocks. 


I loved playing the part of “grandma” and helping my adopted grandkids make some Christmas cookies.  

Christmas wouldn’t be the same without Grammy and Poppy.


What do you think? Where we good enough this year to receive something in our stockings?

Thank you to Dave and Bev Spencer for inviting us to spend some time in their beautiful little cabin up in the Colorado mountains.  


Linden Millist was visiting us from Australia and we wanted him to experience some real snow! 

 A gorgeous Sabbath afternoon hike. 

Playing in the snow. 


All good things must come to an end! Yesterday the girls returned to college and Linden to PNG. Bill and I will be following shortly on January 12.

Happy New Year to each one of you. May this next year be a time of growing closer to Jesus and one year closer to heaven.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

A clinic is built

In my last blog I told you about the Australian team that came to build a clinic in the village of Mengino. Here is the rest of the story… The village of Mengino from a bird’s eye view.

I want you to notice in this photo that the airstrip (on the right) is not actually in the village (to the left). This is very common here in the Highlands. The villages are often built on a mountain ridge and the airstrip has to be built wherever the closest semi flat area is available.

It is approximately a 45-minute hike from the airstrip up to the village of Mengino.

At last…destination reached!

Over the past several weeks the building supplies and equipment were flown into the village in readiness for the building team’s arrival. Now it all had to be carried from the airstrip up to the village.



The team didn’t waste any time getting started and before nightfall of their first day (after flying in from Goroka and hiking up to the village) they had the foundation put in.


From that point on it was steady progress.






Everybody had their area of expertise and pitched in to help...










…well, almost everybody!


The children enjoyed playing “blocks” with the left over pieces of lumber.

These huts were provided for accommodation.

There was a bit of rat activity going on during the nights. The cat came to the rescue.

After that feast he thinks he deserves a rest – even though the trap caught the rat for him!

The cooking was done over an open fire inside this cook shack.

The women did an amazing job keeping the crew fed.


The men thought they would try their hand at it too.

Cold shower anyone?!

The “Washing Machine” busy at work.

Technology has a way of following us even to the most remote parts of the earth.

The village women enjoyed braiding straight hair.

The team held meetings every night. They hung a sheet on the side of the clinic to make a large screen.
Nimson is the village healthcare worker.

Before the clinic could even be finished the first patient arrived. This unfortunate fellow is the husband of two fighting wives. He tried to intervene and the result was a machete slash to the shoulder.
Nimson set up shop on a bench outside the unfinished clinic and proceeded to stitch up the wound.
In less then 2 weeks time the new clinic is finished! Wow, I think that is impressive.





They say, “Many hands make light work” and it is so true.

Large crowds gathered for the official opening of the clinic - not only from Mengino, but also from the neighboring village on the other side of the mountain.

Good work team!

The happy but tired group on their way back to Goroka and hot showers!